Daily Dose of Mama: Every day Should be Family Day

Friday, September 18, 2009

Every day Should be Family Day

This morning I was purposely late for work because I wanted to have a few moments of cuddle time with my Little Bug on his Family Day and give him his gift from Korea.

My heart literally wants to jump out of my body when I think too hard about how much I love him. I want to sing it from the hilltops (or at least proclaim it on every social networking avenue I have and tell everyone I meet). Some days are hard, but man, some days are EASY, and today is one of those days.

I think my elation is from the fact that I am really taking the time to think about Little Bug and how blessed we are to have him and how much I love him. It's not that date, but the meaning that gives me such a Mama High.

I'm going to strive to make a little bit of every day a Family Day.

2 comments:

kellySeptember 18, 2009 at 10:39 AM
You are so sweet. I can feel the love oozing out of you today. It's wonderful.
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BekahSeptember 18, 2009 at 2:53 PM
Ahh...Family Day is awesome sauce. :) Congrats again!
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I'm a 32-year-old everyday mama. My husband (Appa) and I adopted our first son Little Bug (at 10 months old) from Korea in September 2008. We adopted our second son, Little Bro, from Korea in April 2011 at age 21 months. We adopted our third son,Little Moon, at age 3 in November 2013. I've wanted to be a mama for a long time, but I'm still trying to figure out the reality of it all and take time to enjoy the delicate beauty of the highs and the lows.

I worked full time as an editor, which I loved; but I made the bittersweet decision to stay home with my children after Little Bro came home. I'm now clumsily finding my footing in a new world of housekeeping, menu planning, budgeting, cooking, cleaning, and rainy-day activities, as well as navigating the world of IEPs, parent advocacy, and special needs education (spoiler: I suck at house work). My husband is hot and smart and quiet and loyal, and I think (know) my sons are the cutest, happiest little boys in the world.

I also struggle at times with mild depression, anxiety, post-adoption depression, my husband's constant absence due to his stressful and super time-consuming job, the challenges of helping my older son with his sometimes exhausting special needs, and our transition to a family of three little boys with just 19 and 14 months between them. I worry way too much about what people think of me, hate talking on the phone, and I am trying to trust myself more.

Oh yeah, I'm unable to give birth to children; love books, writing, traveling, and the color brown; hate to clean, cook, craft, or do laundry; allergic to pretty much everything but food (thank God); and think camping in anything but a tent is lame.

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