Daily Dose of Mama: Baby Bumper Blues (say that 3 times fast)

Sunday, September 20, 2009

Baby Bumper Blues (say that 3 times fast)

Oh, sob--my baby is growing up.

Long before Little Bug was even a picture in a frame, I had picked out my perfect baby bedding. It was the one and only baby item I purchased pre-referral. It's colorful, multi-textured, bright, educational, and stinking cute. I love it.

Little Bug loved it from the first moment he touched it (picture above). Even today, we often find him easing into his mornings by cooing and petting his crib bumpers.

Most people take the crib bumpers out before their kids turn one, but since Little Bug wasn't mobile for so long, we never had to worry about it. However, in the last few days Little Bug has started trying to climb into his crib. He's nowhere near able to yet, but the intent is there. It's just a matter of time before he makes the connection that he can use this trick to get out.

So today when I was changing his crib sheet I made the spur of the moment decision to leave the bumpers out of the crib. Little Bug hasn't seemed to notice much, but I was pretty sad because it just is one more way that I am seeing my baby is a big boy now.

And the bumper is just so cute. I will miss it until it's time for Little Bro.

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I'm a 32-year-old everyday mama. My husband (Appa) and I adopted our first son Little Bug (at 10 months old) from Korea in September 2008. We adopted our second son, Little Bro, from Korea in April 2011 at age 21 months. We adopted our third son,Little Moon, at age 3 in November 2013. I've wanted to be a mama for a long time, but I'm still trying to figure out the reality of it all and take time to enjoy the delicate beauty of the highs and the lows.

I worked full time as an editor, which I loved; but I made the bittersweet decision to stay home with my children after Little Bro came home. I'm now clumsily finding my footing in a new world of housekeeping, menu planning, budgeting, cooking, cleaning, and rainy-day activities, as well as navigating the world of IEPs, parent advocacy, and special needs education (spoiler: I suck at house work). My husband is hot and smart and quiet and loyal, and I think (know) my sons are the cutest, happiest little boys in the world.

I also struggle at times with mild depression, anxiety, post-adoption depression, my husband's constant absence due to his stressful and super time-consuming job, the challenges of helping my older son with his sometimes exhausting special needs, and our transition to a family of three little boys with just 19 and 14 months between them. I worry way too much about what people think of me, hate talking on the phone, and I am trying to trust myself more.

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