Monday, December 6, 2010

First Day of School

This morning I snapped the first of many "first day of school" pictures of my Little Bug. Decked out in a Rocky-profile tshirt and a sweet Elmo backpack, he was ready to face the unknown (because he knew it contained buses and bubbles) of his new half-day developmental preschool.

Little Bug goes to school all day already, so this isn't some life-altering thing for us, but it is the first time he has gone somewhere new. His current school (where he will still go early in the morning and in the afternoon) was hand picked by me. I know his teachers and the administration. I see the teachers and students and classroom each day. I have my finger on the pulse. I can see and feel how much they love my boy and how happy he is there.

His new school is probably pretty awesome, too, and one where he will receive many of the therapies he continues to need. We took great pains to move into a district where we would be happy with the education system, and that gamble is most likely going to pay off even earlier than we had anticipated. I'm not anticipating Little Bug have much trouble (no more than is normal) transitioning into this new routine. He'll still have his normal school in the afternoon to keep his routine familiar.

My biggest problem is the oddness of this moment. The way that I drop him off somewhere I know and then some stranger comes and takes him on a bus, drives him to a school that I've only been inside once. He'll do this whole thing on his own, without Appa or I there to ease him into it. I'll pick him up at his normal school this afternoon, none the wiser to a huge part of his day.

It's so stinkin grown up and scary.

Obviously his new teacher and I plan to touch base and keep in contact and after an adjustment period I am welcome to come into the classroom (but not encouraged, which I get). It's not like my 3 year old is being left to wander the couple miles between schools alone and in the snow. Quite frankly, he is such an easy going child he won't be nervous at all so long as buses or bubbles are involved. I'm proud of how easy he adjusts to new things, and I know that is a strength of his that will serve him well.

And this is an exciting new part of his life. Real school! Real Bus! Real backpack!

Edited to add: As if the universe knew we all needed a little more of a gradual transition, the bus service was messed up and Appa, who happened to not be traveling today, was able to take Little Bug to school. He told me Little Bug was apprehensive to walk into the classroom, so I am so grateful Appa was there to hold his hand and show him that it is okay.

7 comments:

  1. Good luck to Little Bug today! I know this will be a big transition for ALL of you. Can't wait to hear how it went. So glad Appa was able to take him though...I'm sure it make everyone breathe a little easier.

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  2. phew, even I'm relieved that Appa was there to take him! I know he will do great!

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  3. ok, even though i already knew that appa got to take little bug to school, reading that last part made me tear up! little bug is such a big boy! don't you wish you could see him sitting on the bus and see what he does while on the bus?!

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  4. I'm glad it worked out that Appa was able to take Little Bug into school today. I'm sure that helped put your mind at ease. It is so hard to take those first steps into big kid school. Good luck to all of you! :)

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  5. I totally know what you mean. It wasn't all that hard for me to adjust to having my son go to preschool (at our church) but kindergarten was a whole different story. I felt like I was supposed to help him with every unknown or transition that he faced. He did well, and those teachers know what a child that age can handle and what they can't. Even though I would still like to be with him every minute of his day, I love that he is using his wings and learning to trust that he can do things on his own. I'll be waiting to find out how he did ;)

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  6. I can totally understand why you'd be apprehensive about this new set up. I would be, too. It's awesome that S is such an easy-going and adaptable kid. That is a real blessing. Max? Not so much. I love that Appa got to bring him to the new school on his first day!

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  7. I heart this post. At the same time, I'm having a heart attack thinking about how close we are to bus time here. *I'm* not ready!

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