Daily Dose of Mama: All We Are, We Are

Friday, July 24, 2009

All We Are, We Are

Tonight I went to a Matt Nathanson concert with two of my very good friends (I'm a HUGE fan of Matt Nathanson and of my friends, so I have been anticipating this for a while now). The three of us left our husbands and kids home and made a night of it....a front-and-center-in-front-of-the-stage night of it.

It's funny, in those moments I feel so much like "me." I'm the fan who loves the music, who will camp out in line and run to the venue to get the best seat (truly, I r-a-n), but I'm also the one who was watching out for these two young girls who were getting pushing out of their rightful view, I'm the one checking my phone every so often to see if my babysitter had called, and I'm the one who was missing her kid and husband during "All We Are, We Are."

It's nice to see my lives blending into each other more now. I feel so much less of two halves balancing against each other and more like two halves blending into one "able-to-navigate-the-mom-with-the-me whole."

And the concert--OH, it was A-MAZ-ING.

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I'm a 32-year-old everyday mama. My husband (Appa) and I adopted our first son Little Bug (at 10 months old) from Korea in September 2008. We adopted our second son, Little Bro, from Korea in April 2011 at age 21 months. We adopted our third son,Little Moon, at age 3 in November 2013. I've wanted to be a mama for a long time, but I'm still trying to figure out the reality of it all and take time to enjoy the delicate beauty of the highs and the lows.

I worked full time as an editor, which I loved; but I made the bittersweet decision to stay home with my children after Little Bro came home. I'm now clumsily finding my footing in a new world of housekeeping, menu planning, budgeting, cooking, cleaning, and rainy-day activities, as well as navigating the world of IEPs, parent advocacy, and special needs education (spoiler: I suck at house work). My husband is hot and smart and quiet and loyal, and I think (know) my sons are the cutest, happiest little boys in the world.

I also struggle at times with mild depression, anxiety, post-adoption depression, my husband's constant absence due to his stressful and super time-consuming job, the challenges of helping my older son with his sometimes exhausting special needs, and our transition to a family of three little boys with just 19 and 14 months between them. I worry way too much about what people think of me, hate talking on the phone, and I am trying to trust myself more.

Oh yeah, I'm unable to give birth to children; love books, writing, traveling, and the color brown; hate to clean, cook, craft, or do laundry; allergic to pretty much everything but food (thank God); and think camping in anything but a tent is lame.

I needed somewhere to drop my daily mama thoughts and musings on toddler poop to avoid massive clutter and ramblings on our private family blog. Writing it down on paper is so '90s.

This is my everyday "blournal" as I navigate through my life as a first-time (or is it third-time now?) mama and long-time me. So....hi.

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